That’s where this blog has been for the past week – designing too for that matter.
My focus this week was Liam’s birthday party that we had today. It wasn’t a big thing this year, just close family, but still involved a bit of planning. Free time was spent meal planning, grocery shopping and decorating (with things that I made). We had a “boo-day” party this year – per Liam’s request – and it was a really nice time. I’ll share photos and more about party décor tomorrow.
In addition to party mode, I’ve been dealing with Addy who for the past week (or more) has been having separation issues. She wants to sleep at naptime but doesn’t want me to leave the room. She’d much rather fall asleep clinging onto my shirt with her head smashed again my shoulder. And when I’d get up to leave, she’d cry and crawl towards me, reaching out – I can’t leave her. So while she’d still nap and fall asleep at night, it may take an hour longer because I need to help her. Breaks my heart. Now IF I had the time (and not another kiddo to tend to) I’d be more than happy to nap with her. Four to five hours of naptime a day – heck yeah! But alas, reality.
Actually, when it comes to kiddos sleeping, the reality is that I’m stubborn (big shock there mom eh?)! Liam took two naps a day until he was three. He’d go a few weeks where he’d just play in his bed during the second one. I have no problem with playing in bed, as long as he stays IN BED. Heck, his stuffed animals got quite the education during his downtime! And just when I was ALMOST convinced that he was going to give up naps, he’d sleep solid the next week. I never caved. I’d still put him down the same time each day just waiting for the naps to start again. And they always did.
I’m doing the same thing with addy. I was thinking last week that maybe the morning naps weren’t going to work out anymore. But I didn’t cave and still put her down – just adding some extra snuggles and cuddles as needed. For the past two days, I’ve had “easy Addy” back. Naptimes and bedtimes are no problem again. She laughs when I leave the room and plays for only minutes before going to sleep. I’m lucky.
I learned early on with Liam that sleep begets sleep. And I’m lucky to have two well-rested kiddos…for now.
Remind me to show you the crazy cute hat my mother-in-law made for Addy. She has amazing knitting skills (thanks Marybeth)!